These are presented as a template or resource for your own use. They were developed by the Inclusive Wicca Discussion Group.

Model guidelines for group discussion

(Can be used face-to-face or online)

Guidance for use in a face to face group

Get participants to suggest their own guidelines and write them up on a flip-chart. If they omit any items from this list, you can suggest them.

Guidance for use in an online group

Post the guidelines as a list on the about page of your group. Invite people to suggest additional guidelines. Ask people to state in writing in the comments that they agree with the guidelines.

The guidelines

• Focus on arguments, not people (no ad hominem attacks)
• Address others respectfully
• Avoid stereotyping of other groups
• Don’t discriminate or be judgemental
• There are no “stupid” questions or answers
• Assume good faith by participants in discussions
• Don’t assume that you know what someone else means by what they have written / said
• New members are encouraged to contribute
• Keep it confidential who said what
• Don’t reveal personal information outside the group